Manish Kapoor asked:
I am extreme shy and because of this shyness my carer is going down. I am extremeley talanted. I completed MCSE, Web Designing and CCNA. I am also expert in SEO. But just because of my EXTREME SHYNESS i am not able to enjoy my life and i think day after day i am going in depression.
I am extreme shy and because of this shyness my carer is going down. I am extremeley talanted. I completed MCSE, Web Designing and CCNA. I am also expert in SEO. But just because of my EXTREME SHYNESS i am not able to enjoy my life and i think day after day i am going in depression.
Now, today i have make promise to myself that i will completely change myself. I will overcome my shyness. I know it was reallya tough task for me..But i will achieve it.
Tommorrow i am going to joing GYM and Also i am going to join English Speaking classes from Veta where i will exposed to group discussion?
I need some inspiration from you guys? Pls inspire me and help me or give me any advice or suggestion you want to give.
Add a sense of humor to everything, crack jokes, make sure they are appropriate for your company and just go with. I would rather be laughing with people then sitting by myself, I used to be really shy and now I am sarcastic and most people admire me for it, because of the open say anything attitude. If you don’t want to be walked over, take a stab at it, just make people laugh, and they will love you for, and you will be irreplaceable!
don’t care what people think…EVER. you can do what ever you want! your already better off than half the country and with brains like that you could achieve so much! i was really shy when i was a kid because i was so worried about what other people think about me. it felt like every night before i would go to sleep i would think about all the embarrassing things that ever happened to me. what i did to get over that (and it might sound stupid and really insignificant) is that when ever i think of something embarrassing i tense like my hands or my ankles or my abs. it may sound weird but that brings me back to reality because i can get so caught up in my own mind and i get depressed really quickly. you have exactly the right attitude to deal with your problems. i have no doubt that you will succeed at anything you try!!!